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I think I might be in love. And it scares me.

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Date: 2011-12-22 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jesskastar.livejournal.com
Details! *hugs*

Date: 2011-12-22 09:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lieutfaber.livejournal.com
It's... Weird. We met online. I've never actually met him IRL, but we've been in constant contact via phone calls and texts and ims, and recently video chats. He is also on the wrong bloody side of the country. *shakes fist*

Awkward possible tmi moment: I'm starting to think that I'm sort of asexual- I'm not attracted to people physically, really, but it's based on their personalities and the way they treat me. Which might be why I feel like we clicked- all we HAD forever was personalities and words and such. He's incredibly sweet to me, but tries to embarrass me constantly too (probably just a boy thing :P).

I just don't know if he feels the same way... >_> and now that I've put this in words, it scares me more.

Date: 2011-12-22 10:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] etoilepb.livejournal.com
It's... Weird. We met online. I've never actually met him IRL, but we've been in constant contact via phone calls and texts and ims, and recently video chats. He is also on the wrong bloody side of the country. *shakes fist*

Been there. Twice. Like, seriously and in a very similar way, only we didn't have video chat yet.

The first was Dan, who I dated for two years. The second was Matt, who I married after two years. And even after being married since 2009 we still communicate in text most days, heh.

If your gut tells you there's something there, run with it. After all the years, that's the best advice I've learned to give. Stay safe, but do the scary thing.

Date: 2011-12-23 02:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skyeangelr.livejournal.com
Do one thing every day that scares you.

Do one thing every day that makes you happy.

Sometimes, the same thing qualifies for both. ;)

I'm happy for you! GO FOR IT!

Date: 2011-12-23 07:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jesskastar.livejournal.com
That is fantastic! I'm especially glad you are using video chats. Just keep in mind that a) it is very possible to have chemistry through email/chat/phone and not in person, b) it is human nature to go the extra mile and be our best, which wears off anywhere from 3months to 2 years, and c) you are happy and wearing rose colored glasses now which impacts what you see and how you see it.

I wish you nothing but happiness. I hope my pragmatism and experience doesn't dampen anything. *hugs*

Date: 2011-12-27 05:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] davitant.livejournal.com
Please to be defining "wrong bloody side of the country." That's what I usually think of a lot of you.

=P

Re embarrassing you: teasing you prolly is a sign of affection in his case. Yes, I know I'm responding to things that are a few days(and text messages) out of date. Deal with it...

=P again.


K, back to reading this with baited breath!
Edited Date: 2011-12-27 05:56 am (UTC)

Date: 2011-12-23 02:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kyleholl.livejournal.com
The best thing I ever did was admit my crush on Matt *to* Matt. He flew to London, we had the best first date in the history of first dates, dated long-distance for 18 months, lived together for another 18, had the most FABULOUS wedding that ever was, and are continuing to live happily ever after.

It's a fairy tale come to reality.

Don't be scared; seize the day and enjoy every. last. minute.

Distance isn't an obstacle that should stand in the way of anything.

Date: 2011-12-26 03:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmy-roo.livejournal.com
If he's in California, Jeffry and I would be happy to vet him for you. ;) You could come visit us and hang out with him in a safe environment where you have friends ready to rescue you if he turns out to be a psychopath!

Date: 2011-12-27 05:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] davitant.livejournal.com
Jess Faber, you've just flown over 2000 miles to meet your long distance boyfriend in person! What are you going to do next?!?!?

(The answer should involve the words "I'm," "going," "to," and "Disneyland," used in conjunction.

In all seriousness, go for it and good luck!!!!!!!

....Also, do consider Disneyland....
Edited Date: 2011-12-27 06:00 am (UTC)

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